Interview, in which Lily kindly answers
writing-related questions and lets us
into some of her writing secrets...
How old were you when you first knew you
wanted to be a writer, and what set you off down that journey?
From the age of 11, I wrote
on and off. I had poems published in my twenties, but it wasn’t until 2019 that
I took it seriously. I never saw it as ‘I want to be a writer’ – I just wrote.
I didn’t see it as something people like me could be. I didn’t know any
writers. I stopped trying to get poetry published because I didn’t know what to
do.
I
started at the Open University in 2017, and I joined Twitter as part of a
module then left my Twitter account dormant. I was encouraged by the OU to join
a Facebook group where I made friends but left quickly. I wanted to stay in
touch with one of the admins and I found her on Twitter. We became friends. She
encouraged me to write for prompts.
There was
a 50-word story competition, and I won it. Some OU people were following me,
including The Write Club [the OU’s own writing group]. I decided to see what it was all about, little
knowing my new friend was a member. I see now that her sharing my work probably
got them to see it. Being involved with what they were doing inspired me. They
also published some of my writing. I got
lots of advice from members and was encouraged to publish my own book. That was
My Father’s Daughter.
Tell us about the books and writers that
have shaped your life and your writing career.
I’ve read a ton of books
across a wide range of genres. I love non-fiction, likely the eternal student
in me! There’ve been a number of writing craft ones. It’s hard to pinpoint
which ones influenced me. I love reading Indie writers – there is so much
talent out there and such variety. Their work has had an impact on me.
As
far as writers go, the writers I know and connect with in various ways are the
biggest influence on me. A lot of my favourite people are writers, mostly
self-published or small press. They have taught me so much about writing,
publishing, and marketing. They have also influenced my life. I have learned
about who I am as a person from individual and group conversations which in
turn helps my writing too. I am incredibly lucky and incredibly grateful.
Have your children, other family members,
friends or teachers inspired any of your writing?
One of my secondary school
English teachers helped me see that song lyrics are poetry by getting us to
write new words about scrambled eggs to the tune of Yesterday by The Beatles and
therefore I was a fan of living poets. I love music. I know a lot of song
lyrics by heart, and it can be inspiring.
My parents have inspired some of my writing. ‘Till
death us do part’ (Sandcastles) is based on my dad. ‘Sometimes’ (My
Father’s Daughter) and the pieces I wrote for Footsteps and Echoes
were about my mam. My friends and in some cases their writing has inspired me
and continues to do so.
Does the place you live now, or any
other places you’ve lived, have any impact on your writing?
My short stories are set in
various locations that are well known to me and that I have tweaked quite a lot
or taken parts of them and put them with other parts from another place
entirely. I’d be surprised if people could recognize any of it. I sometimes do
that with poetry too but that can be more obvious. I have written poems about
my hometown where I have lived almost all of my life.
I think
we are all inspired by our environment and if I lived somewhere else, I am sure
that would be reflected in my writing.
How would you describe your own writing? Do you tend to write in a particular
genre, style or form?
I am by default a poet, but
I love to write stories too. I write what comes unless there is a reason to
write in a certain way, for a prompt for example. My poetry is often free verse,
but I have dabbled with form now and then.
Are there certain themes that draw you to
them when you are writing?
The social scientist in me
likes to explore how people feel, think and act in certain situations. I love
people. I talk way too much and so do my characters.
Tell us about how you approach your
writing. Are you a planner or a pantser?
I am definitely a pantser. I
don’t plan very often. I have toyed with the idea of writing a novel and that
was the only thing I planned at all and that was about 20k in when I realised
it was necessary. I may try again at some point but likely a different story.
Do you have any advice for someone who
might be thinking about starting to write creatively?
I would say write for you
and try and do a little every day or at least regularly. I had this idea to
write a sentence a day and it does work. Writers are always pushed for time and
trying to write around their various commitments. I figured we could all write
one sentence a day. Yes, it’s not much, but it adds up. It’s about getting into
the habit of writing and not necessarily needing a lot of time to do it. Once
you start writing, it can and does lead to writing more, finding other minutes,
and thinking about what you actually need in order to write. I believe you only
need the means to do it, pen and any kind of paper, or any kind of device. You
can dictate to your phone now or send yourself emails. There are loads of
prompts around, if you look, if that helps you get started. Ask fellow writers
for prompts if you need to, we often have loads we can share. I have my
favourites. Ask me on Twitter/X and I will happily share.
Also
find a group or community, don’t do it alone [see below].
Are you, or have you been in the past, a
member of any writing groups, online or face-to-face? What do you think is the value of
such groups?
I’m in The Open University’s
Write Club, and a few others on social media. I am an admin for some of them,
but they mostly run themselves really.
Writing
is solitary and that can be hard at times. Having people to connect with online
and via Zoom has been amazing.
I
doubt anything I have published since 2019 would have been out there in the
world were it not for my writing groups (pre 2019 that honour falls to my dad
as he was the one that found the submission calls in the newspapers). Both my
parents were supportive of my writing.
Have you studied creative writing on any
sort of formal course? What do you think you have learned from such courses?
I have completed courses
with Udemy, Futurelearn, OpenLearn, and Reedsy. I am studying for a degree with
the Open University which includes two creative writing modules, one of which I
have completed. I think it’s important that,
as writers, we keep learning formally or informally.
What do you think about getting feedback
on your work from other writers and/or non-writers?
I find it very worthwhile. I
have had a lot of feedback over the years, and I wouldn’t publish a book of any
kind without someone seeing it first and giving me feedback.
For
fiction, I do have experienced writing eyes that will look over it for me. I
have had a lot of feedback from fellow poets in the past but these days my
poetry betas are more likely to be readers or those who are better known for
their fiction. I read the feedback I receive and see if I agree with it. If I
agree, I implement it.
My
Father’s Daughter had too many eyes
and I can still be guilty of that, especially with a new project in a different
direction. I would say, find people you trust and not too many of them. I like
at least one new pair of eyes per book in addition to my trusted souls if
possible. I’m growing as a writer and seeking to grow my readership, so finding
a new person to read for me gives me a fresh perspective. I try and get kids to
beta my kid’s books as they are honest and are nearer to the target readership
in age.
Do you have experience of either
traditional publication, hybrid publication or self-publication, and/or have
you had shorter pieces or poetry published in magazines or anthologies?
I have self-published seven
books to date, and I have plans for more. I have had poetry, short stories and
non-fiction published online (most notably in Makarelle) and in
anthologies.
The
challenge of self-publishing never goes away. Getting everything correct for
Amazon is something I have yet to master completely. I am extremely lucky to
have friends who have the skills to help me or teach me. Santa’s Early
Christmas was the hardest challenge to get right, and I would never have managed
it alone.
As far as being published away from my own books, Makarelle
was the most nerve wracking and the one I felt the biggest sense of achievement
from.
It’s
hard work, particularly on the marketing side, but it’s worth it. Every time I
see my name on a book cover, it fills me with a sense of pride. I did that. I
would never have thought that kid who wrote poems in their jotter would be able
to do that. I would have laughed if you had suggested that back then.
Do you enter writing competitions?
I have entered some but
never got anywhere. I can see that being
placed in a competition or winning it is an ego boost, a validation of you as a
writer. I know that some people strive to move up from the long list to the
short list and hopefully to the winner’s podium. It can also be good publicity.
If you do well in a prestigious competition, it might bring an author some
attention. I am kind of on the fence because I can’t see me ever doing well at them,
but I know they have their place in the writing calendar and are valued by many
people.
Where do you get your ideas from?
Everywhere. Sometimes I
write in response to prompts. Reading a book or a poem, music, things that have
happened in my life, tv, film, the list goes on …
They say that successful writers need to
be selfish. How far do you agree with this?
I write every day, though
how much varies. Sometimes I write one piece or do some editing, sometimes
several pieces. I write wherever, whenever, mostly on my pc at my desk but it
can be on my phone or on paper. A set schedule wouldn’t work for me. I have
written at all hours of the day and night.
Would you describe yourself as a
‘cultured’ person?
I read regularly (66 books
in 2023). I was once a frequent theatre and cinema goer and I love museums and
art galleries. I have also been to a number of concerts. I can see me taking
some of that up again one day. My tv habits have changed a lot. I have cut back
in recent years, and I no longer watch ‘live’ tv. I binge a series or two at a
time. I am very fond of American tv and that makes up the majority of my
watchlist. The odd British series will sneak in, Australian and Canadian
programmes are not unknown. I rarely watch films. I am becoming more
restrictive about the media I consume. I no longer access news regularly. I feel that the art world and the writing
world can feed off each other but I don’t keep up to date. I don’t read literary novels, but I do read
widely so I wouldn’t rule it out. I have been told my poetry is all literary.
Are you interested in history, or
current affairs, and if so, does it impact on your writing?
I enjoy visiting old
buildings and places of interest. I wrote a poem about Bonfire Night. I think
you need to know your subject and do adequate research to make sure you are as
accurate as possible if using a historical setting or events within your work. Whatever
you reference, if it’s not accurate there will always be someone to tell you
and it is off-putting for readers.
How did the Covid pandemic affect you as
a writer?
I published my first two
books in 2020. I wrote a lot. I was my dad’s carer and an Open University
Student. I started studying A215 Creative Writing in October 2020.
Where would you place your own stories,
on a continuum with PURE FANTASY at one end and COMPLETE REALISM at the other?
My stories slide between the
two, I would say. I read fantasy but not all of it is for me. Fantasy
encompasses a lot. I think there is
value in all books and all genres.
I
read widely and I think write widely too.
You are someone who writes both fiction
and non-fiction. Do you have a preference?
I enjoy both. They bring out
different sides in me.